I have now played 4 MP games and Moopere i agree with everything you say about whats wrong with ETW at the moment.
And lets not beat about the bush there is a hell of a lot of it.
The maps issue is easily resolved just get more maps

so not really much to worry about in the long run.
Joining and playing games is a bit of a drama at the moment but we will get the hang of that with practise.
But the whole faction and units thing is total dross for me.
Two Florin size army's only available is an unbelievable oversight from CA in my eyes.
Does it matter what faction you choose to play with ?? i think not, there seems little variation (i guess on this point we have been very spoilt with NTW and CB)
I'm not to worried on the unit costings as Cav are no where near as powerful as in NTW so don't need a high price.
As long as we play with the right guys balanced army's will be fine.
Moopere your real gripe i can well understand with the arty.
Even without the deployment difficulty's and the ease of destruction of your crews, the whole Arty thing to me looks like some arcade gimmick thrown in for fun
I may be wrong but there looks to be some dubious weapon and shell types available too.
I could go on but will give it a rest for now.
The thing is Moopere the thing plays out so dam well

that despite everything you still want to play.
Just being in a 2v2 and at the hight of battle taking a look around to see all army's lines spread out all over the field some engaged, some not with no bunched forces.
Mate it really could be a Napoleonic battle you are playing out.
I wouldn't give up yet mate on ""TRYING TO LOVE ETW""